sick and tired

it's my turn. I'm sick and tired of being the mom. My children are grown adults and I am tired of having to do for them. They need to take care of their own lives and let me take care of mine. My oldest son has finally moved out, but has also managed to push all of his siblings AND his mother away. Fine! Do your own thing and don't come crying to me any more. I sincerely hope that you get exactly what you deserve in life. My oldest daughter is going to become a mother in less than 2 months, but can't manage to keep her room clean OR do anything other than play video games. She is not prepared to be a mother. She makes decisions and then blames ME for those decisions. If she didn't WANT to use cloth diapers, she should have said something BEFORE I spent $80 on fabric. She needs to quit pointing fingers at other people and take responsibility for her own actions. It's time to grow up and start acting like a parent. My second daughter can't figure out why she should do anything at all. What's the point? she asks. She doesn't care if she doesn't make any money. Why shouldn't she be able to live with her mommy forever? Here's the thing ~ without a JOB, she wont have medical insurance. Without medical insurance, she wont be able to see her psychiatrist. Without her psychiatrist, she wont be able to take her medication. Without her medication, nobody wants to be around her because she pushes everyone away by treating them like garbage. THAT is why she can't live with her mom forever. Oh, and there's the fact that she wants to be treated like an adult! My youngest son thinks that he can do what he wants, when he wants, and have no consequences. He shouldn't be forced to actually DO any school work. And God forbid he actually understand any of it and do any of it correctly! He thinks that he can open his mouth and tell other people's secrets and his brother is likely going to put him in his place very soon. That would be unfortunate for both of them, as the younger would probably wind up in the hospital and the older would definitely wind up in jail ~ again. But that's okay because his probation officer would pat him on the head and tell him that it's okay and let him go his merry way.

When will they wake up and realize that without this mom that they all can't stand half the time and that they take advantage of, they would be on the streets?? Why do I have to kick them out in order for them to grow up? Shouldn't they grow up and THEN move out? I guess they missed that part!

Rant over